Crazy People do not always look like this. Most do not.

Crazy People do not always look crazy. I do not mean people with a mental incapability. I mean people who choose to do crazy things. They are exhausting and absorbs energy that can be used for other things. They are usually very dramatic and erratic. They are a destructive path in anyone’s life they encounters. So avoid them as much as possible. They can be a co-worker, a boss, a spouse or a relative. Some times we can’t avoid them.  But when we must be around them keep as low profile as possible. Ignore their tactics in hope they will cease them.  The more attention they are paid the worst they become. Crazy people do not look like this


Images from 15th-century sexual book in Iran.

Sex has always been a major part of every society. It’s how we continue the human race.This book is even less known to exist than the Chinese book of sex.


I warn you these images are quite graphic.

Persian Sex Book


Upon doing research on most of these various sex books. I learned that most of women used in these illustrations were not free women. Most were slaves or a harem member. In most ancient cultures women were property. There was rarely anything exotic about being a harem member as it is so often depicted to the Western World. Usually the woman was sex slave until around age forty and then send to live on her own if the prince or sheik didn’t find favors in her.  However once on her own if she continued these sexual activities there was a strong chance she may end up being stoned to death for violating religious practices. (It was ok by the religious law for these things to be done to her by powerful people but not ok by the religious law for her to support herself selling herself.) The ironic was that this is all she knew how to do to make a living but if she did it outside the palace she was usually brought into at around age 8-12 she was killed.  

So forget the starry-eyed stories of Aladdin, most women’ lives were nothing like that. Even in the original account of The Arabians Nights. This woman had to think of a 1,000 stories to entertain an asshole to save her life. That is not my idea of romance.

Sex regulation







Learn what’s important is a way of empowering yourself.

Today, we as a society are too bogged down in other people’s business. That is not important. How knowing your neighbor’s personal business will benefit you? How knowing where the girl in the Facebook page lives will benefit you? How will knowing any of these things improve your life? When I say seek knowledge I mean knowledge that is useful to you.

Yes, those like our elected officials we need to know who they are and what they are doing because their actions effects our lives but the average person doesn’t need the scrutinizing society give them. But ironic, those we need to know about. We very rarely look into their lives and those whose information is useless to us we keep them under surveillance 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. This is a mere waste of time and energy.

Men and women who know how to wield power do not become bog down in trivial things that serve no purpose other than petty harassment. They look for things that are beneficial to them and their goal. 

Knowledge is Power

I am putting through posts about domestic violence along side posts of being sexy and knowing how to wield the power of it because domestic violence is often the largest obstacle many women much free themselves of before they even begin the journey or building self confident. It is an hindrance to everything that causes a person to feel good about themselves. That’s the sole purpose of it. If a person isn’t feeling good about themselves. Then they aren’t feeling sexy about themselves.

I stated from the very first posts this was not a blog about sex in the traditional way seen all over the internet.

Never fight over a guy or (girl).

Women fighting


I am aware this is nowadays viewed as test of the strength of the love shared. But it is not worth it. Any guy who will instigate fights between women isn’t in love with either of them.

Most of us fight out of injured pride not out of love.

Some may say. “It’s my husband, my boyfriend, my whatever. How dare she approach him?!” Honey, he isn’t your man if he is cheating.He’s everyone’s man. A marriage license can’t make him yours, he has to decide that within his heart. If he still has a cheating heart marrying him isn’t going to change that.

To the side chick, if he cheats on the one he lives with for you. Then he will cheat on you for another. In most cases he isn’t leaving the one he’s living with no matter what lies he tell you. If you didn’t know he wasn’t single when you met him then leave him. I know it is not always easy to leave as society believes it is. Believe it or not many side girlfriends can not leave without suffering serious retaliations. One of the most popular ways he punishes her is letting his live-in girlfriend or wife finds the woman’s information. If he let you find it. Don’t be stupid and call the woman cussing her out. He is merely using you to punish her because he’s mad at her. You didn’t find the information nor anything else about her before he wanted you to. Most likely she has dumped him for a single man. You may not be aware of this for it isn’t discussed openly but your man and his friends maybe harassing the woman who is trying to get away from him.

Don’t give away your power by fighting over him. He is not mute. He can speak for himself. He do not need you to defend him against any woman’s advances. There are men who strive on this type of drama. Do not allow yourself to get caught up in a fight of any sort. You have no idea rather the woman is armed and dangerous and long gone are the days when the other woman ran from the wife or main lady. People today are dangerous and do not back down and no one other than your child is worth dying for.

    And no this is not strictly a poor people issue as society so often have pigeon holed it to be. It can happen to anyone of any social class.



Every 18 minutes a woman suffer at the hands of an intimate relationship.

According the National Crime Statics every 18 minutes a woman suffer at the hand of an intimate relationship. It isn’t reserved by raced, nationality and nor can social economic status protect you. The Russia parliament recently reinstalled the law it is ok to beat your wife or girlfriend. It is no longer a crime.

    This behavior has become a worldwide epidemic. Not only does it exist in America but all over the world. Often it is done in public and no one rush to the woman’s aid. There’s a case in India where the woman was stabbed to death with the single blade of scissor on the streets and people moved to the other side rather than tried to help her. There’s another case in New Zealand where a woman was publicly stripped and burnt to death for alleged witchcraft.The mob fought off those who tried to help her and sadly many in the mob were other women.

     But I’m always curious of where were her family members who are later saying how much they loved these women and girls after their eath. Frankly,  I think some are lying because love is a powerful emotion. It will prompt you to get off your behind and find out where your loved ones are when you don’t hear from them in a while or when you call them they sounded ‘funny’ over the phone or are invasive in text messages. You will push until you find out they really are just suffering from a cold. You don’t care how upset they get. Love will definitely prompt you to act when you know or suspect they are being abused.

     Worldwide as a global community we need to start setting better examples. Teach our sons that this is not acceptable behavior and stop ‘wink, wink’ at it saying ‘boys will be boys.’  Political correctness have no place in a society if people are dying from everyone being too damn polite to stand up and say a behavior or act is a crime and we will not tolerate it anymore.

     The doctors who came up with the antidote to combat the Plague wasn’t polite about it. They intended to stomp it out and they succeeded. That’s the same mentality needed it’s coming to stomp out this “Plague” of domestic violence.

       Like for example; everyone has been avoiding the blatantly, obvious link between pornography and violence toward women and girls all in the name of money. This is a multi-billion dollar industry. Porn display and present women as objects, not as living, breathing human beings with feelings and emotions. Objects have no feelings. Objects expect nothing because they aren’t living things. It desensitizes men to the fact their act maybe painful to their partners. 

      Even children cartoons often show girls that are supposedly 8-14 years old in ultra short skirts and with a bustline as voluminous Dolly Parton and most parents see nothing wrong with that. Saying it’s just a cartoon. No, it’s not. It’s the start of hooking them into soft porn before they are old enough to graduate into hard porn. They are creating new customers for the industry. Men who will never be able to have successful relationships with real women. Real women do not behavior as those in the porn. It’s harmful to both men and women.



 This Man Is Trying To Explain Why He Punched His GF To Death Over A Tinder Message
Gray Collins

23-year-old Jordan Matthews is facing at least 18 years in prison after murdering his 24-year-old girlfriend Xixi Bi.

Matthews killed Xixi after an argument last August, which Matthews described to emergency responders as just “a bicker.” Matthews had become enraged when he could have sworn that he saw Xixi receive a Tinder message from another man. He began throwing her around the room, and repeatedly punching her. He later called the authorities when he noticed Xixi was having trouble breathing.

In a video released by police, Matthews attempted to explain his actions. He said he was trying to have a “conversation” about her relationship and she wasn’t taking it seriously:

    “I asked her what she was doing, where she had been today, who she was with. She would just not tell me.

    I grabbed her by the front of the T-shirt with two hands and picked her up off the sofa, then I dragged her with one hand around the sofa and threw her into the bedroom.

    Then I picked her up from there and threw her into a cabinet. I picked her up from there and I punched her in the stomach. She said something really really, I can’t put my finger on it.

    Then I picked her up… I just lost it the moment she said something she’d said before, something to do with her friend Ivy I swear.

    After she said that, I instantly punched her pretty, pretty hard in the solar plexus area around here. She instantly, pretty much, bent over, pretty much fell to the floor. I held her up […]

    I could see that that hurt. So I apologized to her. After that we just sat on the bed, and she had a little water and spilt it everywhere.”

His own video testimony can be watched below. It may contain elements disturbing to some readers:

Xixi and Jordan both lived together in the United Kingdom. They met on the popular dating website “Plenty of Fish” after Xixi moved to the country for her education.

Xixi was the heir to a multi-millionaire dollar company back in her home country of China. She was described as a kind and intelligent young woman. Her brother made the following statement to the court:

    “Xixi was needlessly and selfishly killed by Jordan Matthews, a person which she trusted. Xixi was a kind, friendly, approachable person. She was intelligent and had the whole world in front of her. The heart has been ripped out of our family. We as a family will never come to terms with our loss, and Xixi will always be in our hearts however broken they are.”

Unfortunately, the relationship between Xixi and Jordan appears to have been abusive almost from the start. Jordan would apparently beat Xixi if she refused to have sex with him, and he would send her abusive texts and voicemails. Voicemails that were submitted to the court as evidence included:

    “F*** you. Stop texting me you worthless piece of s**t.”

    “You never do anything right. I can’t be bothered texting you.”

    “I have to hit you repeatedly in the head while screaming at you.”

Friends and family remarked that while dating Jordan, Xixi became more withdrawn and appeared to be covering up bruises with larger quantities of makeup.

Jordan initially told first responders that he had nothing to do with her death, saying that they fought, but that the argument just resulted in “make up sex” that was “better than regular sex anyway”. He eventually plead guilty to manslaughter, saying it was not his intention to kill her.

He repeatedly referenced Xixi as his “wonderful girl” and offered to show investigators the ring he planned to propose to her with.

Jordan will serve at least 18 years in prison before he is eligible for release.